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Monday, October 26, 2009

this is a story of my mother~~

Assalamualaikum wbt..

Hihihi..walaupun cuti Bank Holiday weekend nih tp x terasa cam cuti langsun...setiap ari ada program x berhenti2..mmg terbakss aaa..hehehe..btw thanks to those who attend tahajjud cinta bersama ataphijau and Diamonds are Forever : Mothers of the Believers..anda mmg rock...haha..semoga dpt laa sesuatu yer utk dibawa pulang bersama...

btw arinih nk story morie pasal my mum...mak saya nih bukanlah educated sgt cam mak org lain..tp dia boleh membaca laa..dan suka baca majalah wanita dan membuat koleksi sehingga penuh almari..hihihi..mak saya sekolah sampai tingkatan 5 laa tapi di sekolah arab..pastuh dia kawen dan tidak bekerja dan membesarkan anak2 jer dirumah...

semalam pg dan laa tepon umah setelah 2minggu lebih x call kot..tuh pun sbb kena sound ngan kakak aku..hihihih..pastuh bila dah call mesti laa bergossip kan...kitaorg bergossip pasal kakak aku yg second tuh..she was having hard time kt tempat kerja sbb dia jadi pegawai dan org2 bawahan dia suma dah tua2 and they dont respect her much laaa

so my mum was telling her to do this and that to gain their respect and how to command them..she was saying on creating a rapport with the subordinates by visiting them every morning asking how they are doing, she urge her not to only sit on her chair and doing her stuffs infront of the computer while she should be going out talking to them, she was talking about psychology, she mentioned also about how not to be arrogant and to humble down to the subordinate, basically she was teaching my well educated sister on how to be a good leader..while she was telling me all those that she said to my sister, i was like jaw dropped..i mean, i've read Steven Covey's 7 habits but she never know how to read english even, but really she knows how a leader suppose to act..i was really impressed cause i never knew that side of my mum..really my mum is a surprise even at the age of 53 oready..while she was talking on the phone with me, she sounded more like a boss really..aku pun terkezut mcmna my mum knows all those things, while all she did everyday is laundry, cooking, preparing my brothers to school, kemas rumah and all the chores..sometimes i do pity my mum for the sacrifice she has to made to raise all her 7 children..she has to stay at home, not able to work while she is capable of working, just for the sake of raising us, she sacrifice her other aspect of life...huhuhu..

she was also mentioned on how few of her friends who are teachers asking her opinion with regards to teach the students and she was telling them about psychology of the kids and all..hahaha..really i never knew my mum knows more about psychology, of course not from the book, but through her experiences and observation...

mak saya adalah org kampung yg dibesarkan dgn cara pemikiran org kampung and she never step out of kampung pun..she stayed at home raising us all the time, dont even have time to read newspaper..i seem to have underestimate my own mother because she lacks of education..but really she amazed me....hihihi..

itulah sedeket sebanyak cerita ibu saya..arituh ceramah Ustadh Lateef dia criter pasal the heart of a mother..dia citer pasal ada sorang nih stab his own mother then took out her heart..while he was walking, he stumbled and fell, and her mother's heart cries asking " Do you hurt anywhere son"? ..realizing how deep her mother's love and devotion for her kid, the man try to stab himself, and the heart of the mother cries again asking him not to do that as it will stab her heart twice at the same spot..that is the love of a mother..it is just amazing...

kepada Kak Asma dan Fairuz yg baru menjadi ibu dan bapa..tahniah!!!!..semoga mujahid comel bakal menjadi anak yg soleh..

2 comments:

mariana said...

tu la...don't judge a book from the cover....ilmu mak tu penuh di dada...n she also can be a good doctor...tak payah p hospital...ubat mak lg special...heheh

Amir Hazwan said...

mak2 mmg camtuh, masa summer ari tuh aku cerita kt mak aku pasal prob aku kt sini dgn partner klinik aku, dia punya nasihat perghhhhh mmg terangguk2 aku dgr semua aku setuju kot..
btw, mak ko blaja ilmu psycho dkt majalah wanita kot. muahahaha jk